Wednesday, 26 July 2017

Things These Days That Can Make Other Girls Insecure Pt1

Hey guys! It's the summer holidays, WHOOOO!!

How is your summer going? Are you on holiday in a beautiful country?

I am back for another post, I have 3 other posts on the way :-)

Today I'm going to talk about things that make girls insecure these days; mainly it's social media, but sadly it's things that happen in everyday life too.

Currently listening to.. *hits the folks and acts goofy*

If there are any grammar or spelling mistakes, sorry about that

I've come to realisation that there's a lot of insecurities and problems with us young people these days. There's girls making raps about their ex boyfriends, talking about how boys talk to them like they're two feet small. 

1 | Instagram
As much as I love Instagram, it can REALLY EFFECT a person's confidence. Not getting enough likes on an Instagram post, boys not 'sliding into your DMs', cyberbullying, not winning in a fight and it being leaked all over 'the gram', being 'exposed on the gram'. Why is there so much mess on social media these days? And why is it fair? Why can't a beautiful black woman with a healthy slaying afro be praised on Instagram yet to be knocked down because she's 'black as fuck'

Disgusting people make social media a dangerous place, and it's shocking. 

2 | YouTube Reactions

I mean this doesn't make me insecure, and I don't have much of a problem with this guy and other guys who react to musical.lys like this but there's boys on youtube who technically just get 'horny' on camera and call it a 'reaction'. To be honest, can we calm with this stupid-ness?

"She's cute and that's the only thing that matters"
"She's average" 
"She alright"

(These are things that he's said on his youtube videos)
This can have a slight effect on someone sensitive who maybe currently doesn't feel that confident or comfortable with her own body. This could give out an impression that we should all just sexualise or alter ourselves to be noticed! I quit, it makes my eyes hurt. Not going to lie..It's a cool app and I'll definitely go back on it one day. But at the end of the day, that's not right. 

3 | it's flippin youtube again..Interviews

Ok so I don't know when this started, but it happened. There's YouTubers who basically just go around asking people whether they like 'black girls or white girls' or 'black boys or white boys'. This can make someone insecure because some of these teen boys actually say some really immature and offensive things in their interviews, same with the girls too. Don't shame a race of people and get brave and gassed because someone interviewed you. But in fact, everyone gets 'gassed' when talking about their preference. 
"Black boys. Big dick" 
shut. up. Bruh.
have you said that to a white girls face?

Again, I don't have that much of a problem with these videos and they definitely have an advantage because you get to see 'wassup'. But everything comes with an advantage and disadvantage.

4 | Some of this music tho...SHUT. UP AND GO TO BED WITH YOUR TRASH (I'm laughing as I'm writing this) 

Sorry, but I feel like I speak the truth. I don't know if it's just our generation, but some people honestly act like badly influenced 5 year olds.

"Now I'm f****n on yo bitch"
"Gettin money"

JUST. SHUT. UP and go to bed like I told you too before. You're speaking a bunch of saliva. I apoligise for the swearing, I'm just imitating.
I enjoy all types of music, but some is honestly trash. If you sound like an IDIOT, I'm not going to listen to it. This music is influencing some of these boys and it's such a shame. Rappers are giving off the impression that acting dumb, having money, fame and a 'bitch' is the 'good life'. 

That was part 1, hopefully I can start writing a part 2. In this post I was basically just listing things that could possibly make someone insecure. None of this effects me but it is important to write things like this on my blog. 

See you soon!

Wednesday, 12 July 2017

Pinterest, GCSE, Updates and Current Fav Songs

Hey guys!!!!!

It's Rukiya here 

A little bit of an update

I haven't posted since the 8th of May...Just over 2 months. For some reason I think of blogging all the time, but never actually get to it. But what I can say for sure is that the Instagram app has distracted me. 

But, see I haven't just been on Instagram, over these 2 months I've gotten more and more into drawing, eyebrows...eyes..face. I just LOVE drawing people or making up my own. I'll be sure to make a post about this all, but for now my goal is to continue to make a lot more pieces of artwork and find the right time to do so. Might as well share when I have something 'poppin' to share...You know?

Science. Science.

oh..It's science...
I need to work on science 

*gets back into depressing mode..Slouches back..Oops..I heard a crack. Rolls eyes and continues the post*  ( I made this all up babes ) 

Some things I understand and I find interesting ; DNA and The Menstrual Cycle. Ionic bonding clicks to me too.

I need to learn to concentrate and try my hardest even if not feeling that comfortable in a classroom. I'm trying to work on revision for science.

My GCSE options are in! For anyone who doesn't live in the UK, GCSE'S are basically the huge deal in secondary school (11 year olds to 16 year olds). They are BIG tests which basically have a HUGE impact on our future; CV, job etc. I'm currently in Year 9 (13 to 14 year olds), next year I will be doing my mock exams (not that actual exams, but important important preparation for the BIG TESTS I told you about). 

I will be taking 
Art - 
All I have to do is make an effort and actually do exactly what I was told to make. That's difficult for me... basically I'm an idiot

I'm looking forward to taking Geography, as long as I focus, everything will be fine

Media - 
Social media, the film industry, the magazine industry..Kinda things like that. Definitely looking forward to it!

I LOVE DANCING. I have to start showing off and being more brave in what I do, how they gonna know you have talent if you don't show it? Next year (Year 10) I'm planning to be a lot more confident and if you keep saying it will happen then it would :-) 

Sociology - 
Crime, Injustice..A lot of things that interest me. I'm more than excited for this!

Wish me luck on my GCSE'S, 

When are you starting yours? 
Do you enjoy Science? 

Update pt2 - 2 Youtubers I'm Lovin' 

Patricia Bright

 It's honestly so sweet to see such a SUCCESSFUL youtuber from the UK. Patricia is entertaining, crazy, lit, entertaining, lit. Did I already say that? Definitely someone you need to watch on YouTube boos

Love Halssa

Also found out about Halssa's youtube channel recently, what can I say....I love the vibes, personality and content

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Current Favourite Songs❣️ 


Wild wild wild thoughts 🎶 

Regret in your tears now you taste em', coz you know I don't chase I replace em' 🎶   

I am so fly like Aladdin 🎶 

You say that you don't love me....You say that you don't trust me well..I find that funny...🎶 

Kehlani's voice is everything 🎶❤️

..And Chris Brown's voice is bae 🎶



How. Can. Palm. Trees. Be. So. Amazing. 

My Pinterest reflects me, if you have no interest whatsoever in my Pinterest. Then it's cool. We just don't have as much in common

Honestly, Pinterest has so much cool things to save. I've been writing a post about 
"how-you-can-never-get-over-it", which I hope to publish soon. I feel as if I wouldn't of found proper inspiration if I hadn't made a Pinterest account, I mean you can't find all these cool stuff on google images. So I guess what I'm trying to say is a big tHaNk YoU to the people who recommended it ❤️

Do you have a Pinterest account?
What are your favourite songs lately? 
What Youtubers would you recommend? 

How's life?
tell me in the comments